Friday, September 26, 2008

The Sun Shone On Me Today

I woke today with a decision. A decision that life is too short to be so stressed. I realize that there will be difficult decisions, and hard days, but we will get thru them. So, I decided I'm not going to lay down and let this roofing company get the best of me. We're suing them. I also signed that permission slip for the field trip, and am moving forward for J's surgery.

I went to the market today, opened my sun roof, and played my music. A little sunshine and a good tune is a surefire cure for what ails. Happy Friday!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

The Stress Is Getting The Best Of Me

I have to get all this off my chest. I am so stressed I feel like I'm walking around in a daze, because I can't deal with all this stress!

Where do I start?

First, moving is a stressful thing to begin with. Selling the old house, getting a new one while living with your parents, who by the way don't do well with children....

Second, I think this house might cursed. I swear to you that anything that can go wrong, has. Anything that should work, doesn't. And you know the inspectors that we paid hundreds for, aren't responsible....

Third, hail storms are not fun. We had to get a new roof, and the roofers that we so painstakingly chose have decided to completely screw us. They have not finished the job, and are now billing us for the substandard work, and additional projects that have not been completed. Oh, and did I mention they are threatening to sue and have put a lien on the house?

Forth, I wish Jacob didn't need surgery. My son was born with a minor birth defect. He now has to have surgery to give him functionality of his right hand. I'm terrified of the anesthesia. I wish we didn't have to do this.

Fifth, why does Megan have to be so difficult? I have a child that is bound and determined to run the show. She has the idea that she's the adult, and her father and I are just idiots. Of course I feel like this is my fault-where did I go wrong?

Sixth, I miss my dog. I hate that Norman had pain before I had to put him down. Maybe I should have helped him sooner. I miss his presence.

Seventh, why am I seen as the one who can be difficult? Megan's school has sent home a permission slip for a field trip, great sounds like fun, right? Wrong! They will only allow her to go if I sign away all liability protecting the district, teachers, employees, or other persons involved in the trip. What's to protect Megan?

Eighth, there's a report of people who are casing our neighborhood and breaking into homes. Need I say more on this topic?

I think I'm going to hide under the covers.....

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

I Was "That" Mom

One of my good friends went out of town to visit her mother who had just moved into a new home. She asked me to keep an eye on her children while she was away. She has a 17 yr old, 14 yr old, and a 12 yr old. No big....They are all really good kids, and amazingly self sufficient. Sounds like a breeze, huh? Well, you would have thought I was the one in charge of all managing the Waltons. I found myself driving the minivan like a mad woman on a mission. I never realized it could be so nimble.... I don't know where my brain went on vacation, but I hope it had a good time. Not only did I forget my haircut appt on Saturday, but I also forgot to take the youngest to speech class on Monday morning. What's better, I didn't realize I forgot the Mon appt till I was already running late, had the dog with me, no make up on, and my kid didn't have shoes on. Oh, and did I mention I left the directions to the facility at home too? There's something about having more than two children to keep up with that throws me in a tail spin. I had them for five days, and managed the swim practice, birthday parties, soccer practice and games, speech class, getting them ready for school, lunches, and homework. Needless to say, I was so glad when the Eagle finally landed :-).

On a completely different topic-have you heard about the two high school kids in Flower Mound? They ran across the football field last Fri night at the game, one dressed like a gorilla, the other a banana. Can you believe the school pressed charges, and made the kids spend the night in jail????? They then wanted to send them to the alternative school with all the thugs. What is up with you people? Have we gotten to a point where jokes are unacceptable? Get a grip!

Speaking of getting a grip....There's a 72 yr old man in Southlake who has been keying Hummers. He has been caught on tape, confessed and turned himself in. He now faces two yrs in prison. When asked why he did it, he said it was because of environmental reasons. Apparently they use 4x's the gas than other vehicles. Now, I'm a big environmentalist, but even I know that's going too far....He did make me feel better about myself though :-)........